The Goal is to Love Well 

 Train Like an Athlete to Develop the Mindset, Focus, & Tools to Love Well ... even when it's not easy.

 

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What to Expect

 You’ve taken the first step. Next, we'll explore whether this program is the right fit for you, your partner, and me. Together, we’ll discuss your goals, address key questions, and determine if this is the best path forward.

My Guarantee:

I can’t guarantee that your relationship will last forever, or that it will go from bad to good, or good to great, or great to amazing — although that’s what I want for you.

But I will guarantee your satisfaction. If, at any time within the first 30 days, you feel this program isn’t creating value for you, you can request a refund of up to the full amount (less payment processing fees). That’s how strongly I believe in this process.

My Promise:

What I can promise you, if we work together, is that you will learn how to:

  • Communicate your wants and needs to your partner in a kind, loving, respectful way that’s more likely to be heard and less likely to invoke shame.

  • Present more positive evidence to each other on a daily basis.

  • Reduce the amount of negative evidence you present to each other.

  • Navigate conflict more peacefully, constructively, and lovingly. 

  • Give your partner the formula to love you well (and they will give you the formula to love them well). This is a formula that is very specific to you and your partner ... because each of you will create your own. 

Before You Schedule Your Call:

  ✅  Both of us are willing to put in the work.

  ✅  I'll bring a notepad to each session.

  ✅  I know that working on our relationship doesn’t have to be stressful.

  ✅  I understand that the homework might be some of the easiest, most rewarding, and fun homework I’ve ever had.

Ready to take the next step?

Schedule your call now, and let’s explore if this program is the right fit for you.

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How This Program is Different

  • High-end, skills-based coaching alternative to couples therapy
  • Low stress sessions. No blame. No shame.
  • No venting. Focused on your own growth.
  • Quick Results. My program typically lasts 2–4 months, with optional maintenance sessions available if needed.
  • Proven success helping couples rebuild trust and connection ... even after infidelity.
  • Tools to regulate your emotions and handle conflict
  • Learn to communicate your wants & needs in a way that's more likely to be heard by your partner, and less likely to invoke shame

What Working Together Looks Like

  • 50-minute Zoom call
  • I typically work with each partner individually. This approach helps you relax, reduces the temptation to get defensive in front of your partner, and lets you focus fully on your own growth. It also makes it easier to leave your ego at the door — all of which creates an environment conducive to real progress.
  • Later in the process, if both partners want to meet together, we can discuss it. However, most couples see so much progress and appreciate meeting separately that they prefer to continue that way.
  • Fun homework designed to foster deeper connection 

Growth and Clarity — No Matter the Outcome

My desire is for every relationship to have the chance it deserves to thrive. That’s exactly what this program is designed to do — to give your relationship the structure, tools, and focus it needs to have that chance.

But no matter what happens, you’ll walk away with peace, clarity, and practical skills that will serve you moving forward.

  • Peace of mind in your decision. This comes from knowing you did all you could to make it work (learning to love well ... even when it's not easy). No one wants to be haunted by the thought of wondering if they did enough.

  • You will be better prepared as a partner for your next relationship.

  • The ability to identify red and green flags earlier, This means you’ll be better at choosing the right partner in the future.

  • When you are someone who commits to loving well, you'll want a partner who does the same. That means you won't settle for someone who doesn’t love you well.

  • You'll be more attractive to the kind of partner you want. Other people who love well will see the green flags in you.

"Last year was the worst and hardest year of my life. My husband and I were headed for a divorce. We were so disconnected and resentful of each other, which resulted in infidelity. When we came to Trent, we struggled to maintain hope that we would recover.

Trent was everything our “family therapist” was not. Not only did he listen, but he also had an entire structured plan for us to follow. We trusted the process. We had separate sessions, but we came together for much of  the homework. I realized so much about myself and about our marriage. It was so clear we were on different pages, even chapters. Following Trent’s guidance and program brought our connection back.

I'm so thankful we invested in our relationship and are now in the best place we’ve ever been. I’m proud to say we are celebrating 15 years this week, and last year that seemed so uncertain. We are so connected in every way now. I know that will never change. I couldn’t be more grateful for Trent and his program."

- Jennifer H., NC

Investment

Join other high performers choosing this skills-based, low-stress approach to strengthening their relationships.

This program has also resonated with top sports psychologists, clinical psychologists, sports psychiatrists, and Certified Mental Performance Consultants who work with elite athletes and high performers worldwide.

  • The program is $4,200 per month.

  • The duration typically ranges from 2 to 4 months, with optional maintenance sessions as needed. (This is not like therapy that can stretch on for many months or years.)

  • Concierge-Level Coaching available upon request. Pricing based on additional support and availability.

  • Weekend intensives are occasionally available (limited spots). Prices start at $7,500 and include accommodations, meals, and private coaching.

This Program Is For You If ...

  • You’d rather focus on skills, growth, and connection than blame and shame.
  • You value a low-stress, high-results process that fits into your busy lives.
  • You want practical tools you can use right away — not theory or endless talking.
  • You and your partner are both willing to put in the work.
  • You want progress in months, not years.
Yes, This Is For Us

Just imagine if you put as much thought, effort, and energy into learning to love your partner well as you put into:

  • Your workout routine
  • Meal prep
  • Increasing 4th quarter sales
  • Improving your golf swing or learning a new yoga pose 

 

"I'm so thankful we found Trent! We had gone through infidelity, and we were about to get a divorce. I didn't want to talk about my relationship with anyone, but meeting with Trent felt great ... and his program saved our marriage! We have done a 180! We have an amazing relationship now … one that other people envy. I’m so grateful for Trent and his program!"

- Jared, WI

"I switched from couples counseling to work with Trent because I learned more in two 15-minute calls with him than I did in 6 weeks of therapy. I'm so glad we did. Working with Trent saved our marriage (after an affair)! We're better than ever."

- Angela, NY

  

"When we called Trent, we were already separated. Still, working with him was such a positive experience throughout the entire process. This program gave me peace of mind, knowing I had done the best I could to save our marriage. — and that peace is priceless. And with everything I learned from Trent, I feel so much better prepared for my next relationship."

- Mary, HA

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